Moods ! Moods! Moods @ Moods.com Some times we laugh, Some times we frown, Sometimes we have so many things to share at once by incoherent non stop nonsense, but some times we find that not even one word comes out of our golden mouths. We feel that we may loose some golden treasures may be stolen by others if we talk. NO, that is not what is true, exactly, but the moods prevail our conduct. Personality of man is divided by the famous psychologist into different types, Sigmund Freud--
he says that :
The id is the set of uncoordinated instinctual trends; refers to irrational needs and demands, something which has nothing to do with the reality of the situation. Freud believed that Individuals seek immediate pleasure in order to satisfy their biological and physiological needs without taking into consideration the reality.Id gives immediate pleasure to individuals and is often irrational.
And yet another famous psychologist Jung says, that
Introverts are likely to relate to the External world by listening, reflecting being reserved and having focused interests.
he says that :
The id, ego and super-ego are functions of the mind rather than parts of the brain According to this model of the psyche,Ego develops when individuals start interacting with people around. Ego helps in the fulfillment of id, taking into consideration the reality of the situation.
The id is the set of uncoordinated instinctual trends; refers to irrational needs and demands, something which has nothing to do with the reality of the situation. Freud believed that Individuals seek immediate pleasure in order to satisfy their biological and physiological needs without taking into consideration the reality.Id gives immediate pleasure to individuals and is often irrational.
the super-ego plays the critical and moralizing role; and the ego is the organized, realistic part that mediates between the desires of the id and the super-ego.[1]The super-ego can stop you from doing certain things that your id may want you to do.[2]
An adult personality generally has three determinants: Id, Ego and Super Ego The outcome of the combination of all the three determinants shapes an adult personality.
According to Freud, the key to a healthy personality is a balance between the id, the ego, and the superego.
Our conduct our behaviour, our style of life , our outlook depends upon how much importance we are giving to the SuperEgo. The small still voice of God within every soul of the man. We are basically ID driven beings, The Old Adam is there in every one of us. He does not go away at any cost. Till we die he is there using the ID in us, to test us at every crucial juncture of life.
Ego comes at hand, its the outward personality we maintain, by our adapted social talents, our education, our socialization, the habits we are fond of, all makes us a being acceptable/ unacceptable in the society. The society we live in dictates our discretion, what we think good in one society is bad in other society. We adapt according to the culture and norms of that particular society. Then how can we judge others? How can they influence our moods?
And yet another famous psychologist Jung says, that
the dimension of personality is--introversion and extroversion.
Introverts are likely to relate to the External world by listening, reflecting being reserved and having focused interests.
Extroverts on the other hand are adaptable and in tune with the external world. They prefer interacting with the outer world by talking actively participating, being sociable, expressive and having a variety of interests.
Again the question of confirming others to our own personality makes us fools of ourselves. We cannot make others to behave , to love, to talk, to do things like us. After all God finds its a joy to create each one of us in unique fashion. He likes to see each one of with different complexions, different features, different languages, yet He loves every one of us.
The darkest , and the fairest, irrespective of colors and creeds, each one has a role to play in this vast universe, in his own peculiar way. And how can we dictate others to be just like us? Funny, we and our moods , should they be depend on others dictations?
But still, God even He loves so much , when we go astray, He grieves over us, so there is no wrong in having expectations of other beloved ones for our us. But should this influence our personality, just because they do not confirm our expectations? If it is God would have left us long ago.
Again the question of confirming others to our own personality makes us fools of ourselves. We cannot make others to behave , to love, to talk, to do things like us. After all God finds its a joy to create each one of us in unique fashion. He likes to see each one of with different complexions, different features, different languages, yet He loves every one of us.
The darkest , and the fairest, irrespective of colors and creeds, each one has a role to play in this vast universe, in his own peculiar way. And how can we dictate others to be just like us? Funny, we and our moods , should they be depend on others dictations?
But still, God even He loves so much , when we go astray, He grieves over us, so there is no wrong in having expectations of other beloved ones for our us. But should this influence our personality, just because they do not confirm our expectations? If it is God would have left us long ago.
so if we have too many swings of moods, from the zenith to the Hades, We never did try to understand the human behaviour. we are too quick to judge others because we never try to understand the exposure that they have in life.
We are speaking about the martyrs, who died for Christ, they had undergone fiery trails , and yet they rejoiced in their circumstances seeking the opportunities to serve others with the love of Christ. We do not have such trails, we are not undergoing any trails, even for such little bumps in the life all the scum in our hearts is coming out as a fountain and dirtying us and others. we blame others for spoiling our testimony, saying " only because of her/him I am like this" How can we take Christian witness so easily? Is it for this cause He died for us?
Should out moods swing so drastically depending upon the people around. Should their moods influence our moods?
