I read about a funeral of a pastor whose children never coperated with him but astonished at the good words spoken by the public about him. They blamed him saying he spent more time for the church but not for them. When I sent that clipping to one of my friends she responded that she is like that child of the pastor and blamed her father for he is more interest in church than her and mother. And another person reacted that the children are selfish and no one can satisfy such family when a pastor is more indulged in God's work.