Saturday, June 15, 2013

EGO

Ego- Self respect, and Anger -Righteous Indignation

Many people of this generation do not know the very meaning of these words, or even if they know they never care to know the meaning or the application of it in their life or in the life of others. 

This is the reason for all sorts of confusion in their relationships with others which lead conflict in their personal relations.
Some times they never try to recognize these various aspects of personality in others. This leads choas and disturbed mind set.
Ego is something we all have in our personality. 'I' is the ego that settled in our life. It is there from the very birth of the human being.When it increases, it touches the mind, emotions, feelings, and visible through the eyes of the people. It turns up into ugly form of Pride. The walk the look, the talk, the gestures, manners, every thing would be covered up this pride. Touch this person we will be burnt. Not even one word we 
could speak to them in peaceful way. The life would be a great rough road to live with such people. The minute we open out mouth to speak, they are ready to fight with us. These people are the incarnation of EGO. Egoists feel that they are right all the time, and have little patience or concern for others, and try to hurt others without any cause.They are all ways on self defense position. ready to fight. May be they are having inferiority complex. 
Inferiority complex burns them from dawn to dusk. The reasons for this complex  may be any thing under the sun. This is something that they could not get rid of. 
This rules their lives because they wanted to achieve something in their lives, but  could not because of the life circumstances.  These people are very good most of the time with some people of their range, if they find someone who is successful in the area where they failed, their ego dances very ugly. 
There are some other types of egoists, who suffer superior complex. They all ways compares with others, the way others dressed up, or the way they talk, the way they lives their lives. Because they cannot compete with them because of their inferiority complex they show superiority complex.  They are very uncomfortable in the company of any person. Only a few people they have, who will accept them as they are. 
Whatever, these egoists suffer from complex, either inferior or superior.  various phases of Complex rules their lives. The out ward symbol of these people is they are very uncomfortable in the presence of other people, can not mingle with others, can not SMILE, all ways have grumpy faces, and never crack a joke in their lives. Find faults with others all ways. Lonely people, love themselves, their own interests rather than the People whom God loved and came to save them because they are perishing. They have nothing to give to the others because they are the most impatient persons to listen to others or make friends with to go into the depths of their souls. 
We see these even among our christian circles, they are having all the talents in the world , but never come out to glorify the Lord. Because they all ways think about themselves, think that others will see them and say good words to them, they say, that they do not want to get name or fame by exhibiting their talents in the groups of people. Its a false alaram that suppresses them all through life. They first of all do not have the desire to GLORIFY GOD,  this concept never occurs in their lives. They never know how to WORSHIP THE LORD. So think that they are the only ones who can enjoy their own talents, never like to come to public. Public is place where you are put on the stage, stage of shame and humiliation, comments, compliments, criticisms occur once you are in lime light of life. This is inevitable. St. Paul said we are the objects on the stage to be laughed at. As Christians we have to be on the public stage. There is no secret Christianity  When we work for the souls , we will be seen. But doing the work of God only for the sake of seeing is something should be stopped in any body's life. Anger is the easy emotion for these complex people. This is the result of their haplessness  Some people use their mouths and speak to hurt others. Some people just sulk and would not open their mouths. Ahab the king of Isreal is the great example of this complex.